Wednesday, June 18, 2008

life

life is always hard...
when u thought u are the right want, peoples will stop u from think of that.

i have been in this kind of life in my past 2 yrs... everything goes well...
i have to thx somebody cos he is so intelligent and help me alot in my works...
but now...when he left me,im facing problems...

cos somebody has changed...
her changing made my life changed too...everything i thought was right, she want change everything of that. she makes me become wrong...

i know im not wrong, neither she. but just, she want everything to go like what she wants.. she want everybody to listen to her....
and i...have been used to the life that everybody follow my style for 2 yrs... this is really training my patient...

it is good too for me, cos i should have train myself to be patient, so that i can be a very patient ppl in my real work in my future. even i dont like the ppl, i will train myself to smile at them...this is the real world isn't it?

and maybe i shoudl really try to listen to her, everything she said, i juz follow, i will nvr give opinion anymore.... juz to let her try, see how well she can be.
maybe she is not as bad as i think?

we have the different way and style...maybe she would like to try her way.

but based on my experience...i only have 1 advise to her.
nobody is gonna follow 1 person in the whole life... she should oways learn to respect ppl's idea... especially when you ask somebody to do something for u...

u hand in the task for the ppl, means u have confident on the person, if at the end u band all person's work as a result, u...even can make everything goes smooth in work, but u will lost your respect from everybody... dont try to makes everyone follow u.dont think that leader is so easy to be, what u think is best, not everybody will be as the same thinking like u...leader should oways learn to accept ppl's idea, not only ask ppl follow and do your idea...

i have learn this long ago when i was a leader. cos i know, if juz keep banding other person's idea...ya in the end everything goes nicely...but nobody is gonna respect u as a leader..cos u not a 'leader' who is leading ppl, u u juz a 'forcer' to find all excuses to let ppl follow your idea... plenty of excuses to persuade ppl accept your idea...and 1 action to destroy the coorperation between u and your team mate.

wish her everything good luck. just...
i will also train myself not to give so many ideas... i wana train myself to accept everything...even thought something i think is bad, i also accept(no opinion o!! shut up always..and just relax and play in my life. no more stress of being leader). cos i also want to let other ppl try...let her try...and let me try...

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